Huh? The only way God can show us he’s in control is to put us in situations we can’t control? This is supposed to be an all-powerful god and this is the ONLY way???
God: Hmmm….I must show this very caring person I’m in control. I could just tell them that, but I’m not powerfully enough to directly talk to them. What could I do? So many choices. Ah, I know! Bone cancer! Yes, bone cancer! They’ll definitely be out of control them, therefore putting me in control. Painful bone cancer it is!!!